One of the issues that most concerns men is how to approach a woman to get to know her and finally, if things go wrong, being able to have a loving relationship with her. If you constantly ask yourself: how to overcome the fear of women? It is because surely that concern you have is so great that it has finally turned into that, into fear. This type of fear towards women is produced by the level of anxiety that you experience just thinking about the first approach with a woman that you like and evidently has been limiting all this type since in the first place you can not let yourself flow and be yourself and finally it makes it impossible for you to get to have a relationship with a woman beyond the friendship.
But can the fear of women be overcome? The answer is that YES you can, all you have to do is work on certain aspects of your life to improve them and that you trust and security in yourself increases enough to be able not only to start talking to them but also that you can get to have loving relationships with them. That is why in this Psychology-Online article we are going to explain to you what are the reasons why this is happening to you and above all
There are many reasons why fear of women can appear in a man, the main ones include the following:
- Extreme shyness Men who are too much shy to the degree that their shyness becomes limiting. In these cases it may be that there is another underlying problem that is very common such as social phobia, although rather the phobia or fear is specifically towards a woman where the level of anxiety is so much that the best boy chooses to avoid them.
- Irrational beliefs. Another possible cause for a fear of women to develop is irrational beliefs. That is, a man may think that all women are the same, that at some point they are going to hurt him, that they only bring you problems, etc. Beliefs that may come from observing the bond that their parents have had between them or the bad experiences of people close to them.
- Low self-esteem. Another reason why a man may be afraid of women is that he has low self-esteem. A man who does not feel good about himself and who is too insecure will feel that he is not valuable enough to please a woman.
- Fear of being rejected. The fear of being rejected also has a origin in low self-esteem since finally the man does not love himself enough and he thinks that all women are going to reject him.
In this other article we discover you why don't you trust women and how to overcome this mistrust.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
