¿What to do when you dislike someone for no reason? Personal relationships also have aspects that are uncontrollable, such as affinity or total lack of chemistry that can exist between two people who have just met in the workplace or personal. There are people with whom you initially connect and others, with whom without a logical reason, you dislike them. In the event that this situation of personal dislike towards someone happens to you very frequently, then, you have to analyze the reason. If it is a specific event, then it is completely natural.
You can dislike a person without having done anything in particular to you, however, you live this situation with discomfort because you are not aware that you are not objective at all when valuing the other person in their ideas and in her opinions because each thing she says you observe her from the filter of the negativity.
When you dislike a person for no reason you have two options:
- Letting yourself be carried away by prejudices, something that is not emotionally intelligent.
- On the other hand, you can question your own opinion to give yourself the opportunity to get to know the other person a little better.
It is not about aspiring to be his best friend but about to be able to improve the relationship a little In the event that due to work circumstances you are obliged to deal with that person frequently.
Two people can be wonderful, each have many virtues and despite everything, they do not fit into their way of being and be incompatible at the level of friendship. Interestingly, it can also happen that someone outside gets along very well with both.
First of all, when you dislike someone you have to be polite so that you are noticed as little as possible. You also have to be consistent with what you think so as not to use the other only when it suits you. Try to focus little on the other person.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
