They say the past always comes back This is how it happens when a person does not heal the wounds of yesterday. In that case, every so often you find yourself in a similar situation that reminds you of other times from yesterday. Last It can interfere in a negative way in your present when you do not face problems and avoid them. No matter how long you flee from a situation that happened years ago, the internal conflict will not be resolved without doing anything despite your indifference. The situation worsens, the problem becomes gigantic and acquires remarkable dimensions.
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- Seek professional help
- Do not blame yourself
- Take stock of your life
Seek professional help.
When the problem comes from the past, and the problem has dragged on for a long time, it is time to ask for professional help. It can be positive go to a psychologist or a coach to know the internal reasons for the emotional situation.
Once you discover the cause of your discomfort, you also have more information to process those experiences that have marked you in a negative way.
Do not blame yourself.
Don't blame yourself for being like this. Actually, take this limitation as a opportunity to advance: You have to look at your past, to close all the doors that were left open to be able to enjoy your present and your future.
In many cases, people have emotional, family or self-esteem conflicts. Avoid victimhood because you always have time to heal your heart.
Take stock of your life.
To check if the past always comes back, then, take stock of your life. If there are very similar situations that you live strongly again in certain periods of time, then listen to that alarm signal.
The past is a gift but also it can be a drag that prevents you from moving forward in positive if you have not mourned for certain losses.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
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