Respect is an inherent good of human nature since, based on the dignity of the person, any human being is worthy of respect. However, on a day-to-day basis, it is you who has to assert yourself and respect, in those situations where that your interlocutor does not seem to treat you as you deserve and you are left with the strange feeling that he is stepping on.
There are many ways of not valuing someone: this is how those who promise something to another person who then do not comply behave, who generate verbal expectations that constantly break through action, who use you to the point of taking you into account, only when they need a favor... ¿How to assert yourself and respect in situations like this?
There is always a kind of fear of looking bad with another person by saying the true thoughts: But what is the use of having a relationship with someone who does not value you as you are? There are relationships that more than an enjoyment become a burden: Can that be considered friendship?
On the other hand, the moment you really say what you think, you will feel much better about yourself, freer and more capable of defending your point of view. Saying what you think is a way of loving you yourself and showing that love in front of someone immature and incoherent.
One of the most important lessons, but also one of the most difficult, is that of learn to say no. That someone uses you once, it is the responsibility of that someone, however, that you fall into the Cheating on future occasions is already your responsibility as long as you already know who you have in front of to you.
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