The human being is a being that on the one hand is located in the world and on the other, is. Being is one of the topics most studied by metaphysics from a philosophical point of view. Being makes up the entity, that is, the entity. Well, man beyond being a relational being who needs to be in contact with others, that is, he needs enjoy, laugh and be happy, the reality is that it also requires moments of solitude to be with yourself and know yourself best.
Being alone is necessary even to be able regain inner peace after a disappointment. However, we live in a society with so much media noise that it seems impossible to understand loneliness from a positive point of view. Just think about the fact that many people equate singleness with unhappiness. Those who think that they are happier for being in a relationship do not know the meaning that love really has.
Being with yourself implies that you must start treat you like you are your best friend. You should send yourself positive messages throughout the day, especially when you have to face some difficulty and some fact that hurts you. For example, it is very important that if you are going to do a job interview you are able to trust yourself, and give yourself reasons for internal security.
There are many people who dare to travel alone as a way to fascinating spiritual experience. For example, many pilgrims walk the Camino de Santiago every year. The feeling of inner peace is a priority to be able to live happily and be fully. But also, it is a feeling that causes joy, illusion and happiness. To achieve inner peace it is necessary to learn to grieve and also to feel.
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