Personal disappointments are like that bitter taste that leaves an unpleasant imprint on the mind. Sometimes the weight of a major disappointment can erase the imprint of many positive actions on another person. Disenchantment in love, for example, hurts a lot. exist symptoms of personal disappointment that help you to know yourself better.
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- It's hard for you to look into the other person's eyes
- Desire to mark distance
- Be angry
- You change in your treatment towards the other
You have a hard time looking into the other person's eyes.
Looking into someone's eyes is one of the greatest gestures of sincerity and affection. A gesture of trust that arises naturally in communication. However, when disappointment arises, it is more difficult to keep your eyes on the person who has disappointed you. A disappointment is also very subjective, and someone may have disappointed you not because of a specific act but because they have broken your expectations, for example.
Desire to mark distance.
In the face of personal disappointment, we tend to protect ourselves creating our own barrier. This is one of the reasons why you may want to distance yourself from someone after a disappointment. That distance is a form of defense against internal pain. Seeing that person again can be like remembering the pain.
Be angry.
Feelings mix on an emotional level when disappointment occurs. The disappointed person experiences anger, sadness and anger towards the other. Unpleasant feelings that make disappointment an emotionally uncomfortable state.
You change in your treatment of the other.
Momentarily, when you feel disappointed in someone else, too you change in attitude that you have in that relationship. This change can be occasional or permanent depending on the context.
Disappointments are overcome because they are also part of personal relationships and help you to know yourself and the other better.
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