What to do when someone denies you forgiveness from her? There are situations that cause some people to get stuck in their past and cannot move forward. In addition, they are stuck with emotions of pain, sadness, anguish and regret. This is what happens when, after having asked someone to forgive you for an action you regret, the other person freely decides to deny you their forgiveness. In that case, you have the feeling of being punished in the most cruel way, especially if the bond that you had with that person was very close. What to do in such a situation?
Understand, no matter how much it costs, that Libertyhuman justify actions in an individual context. Just as someone is free to ask for forgiveness or not to do so, in the same way, the other person has the decision to understand or, on the contrary, not to do so. On the other hand, it is also good not to directly identify the fact that the other person gives you his forgiveness with that everything will be the same as before. In many cases, people forgive, that is, they do not keep
If you meet someone who does not forgive you, then what you can not do is be asking for forgiveness eternally because you can not spend your energy and your life on someone who does not value the gesture you are having. On the other hand, what you do have to do is forgive yourself, since in most cases, this is where the suffering lies. There are people who do not forgive themselves until they receive the forgiveness of others. Learn to love yourself and to give value to your actions. That is, the fact that you had the courage to show your repentance to another shows your honesty. Therefore, do not punish yourself anymore, or blame yourself.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
