In Psychology-Online we have frequently talked about the importance of true love or deep friendship in the happiness of a person. However, it should be specified that on the affective level, the most superficial relationships, for example, the bond with acquaintances or companionship also add self-esteem and positive thinking to a person who feels integrated in an environment of relationships. The simple fact of walking down the street and being greeted by a person is a gratifying gesture. Valuing all relationships in their proper context is an important step in not underestimating relationships that add value even if their value is less than that of true friendship.
Superficial relationships are also based on respect, cordiality and coexistence. On the other hand, a superficial relationship can often be the starting point of a deeper bond, since all friendship has its growth process that starts from scratch. Superficial relationships add self-esteem to the life. Inner conflict and discomfort arise when a person only has relationships of this type with others.
In that case, you may feel empty when you feel that these relationships do not truly fill you. It is clear that superficial relationships cannot fill the gaps not covered by true friendship.
One area in which many superficial relationships are established is at work. An environment in which companionship is key to working at ease. The most superficial relationships are those in which the level of intimacy is not shared as much as in true friendship. And despite that, very pleasant and relaxed moments are shared in this type of bond, even from another perspective.
Human beings are social by nature and need the company of family, friends and acquaintances to feel fully well. Constant loneliness is very painful.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
