Envy is insane because it goes against the logic of feelings itself, while the envious one is saddened by the good of others and suffers as if it were a misfortune. The poison of envy mainly affects the person who suffers it, but that negative energy can also splash the closest environment. How recognize toxic behaviors of a person who suffers envy?
A person who is envious will seldom freely and honestly acknowledge that she is jealous of someone because she censures herself. However, envy cannot be suppressed one hundred percent when it is felt, and one of the ways the envious man has to release his discomfort is through sarcasm and irony. Forms of humor that depending on the way they are used can be harmful.
When you are with a person who is envious of you, there is no no kind of empathy at times because envy is a barrier that prevents those who feel it from putting themselves in the other's shoes. Who suffers envy has Inferiority complex and believes that something is missing that the other has. Therefore, until he heals his own internal wounds, it is impossible to turn the page. This lack of empathy is evident in the little joy that a person who feels envy can show when faced with certain news that is good.
When a person is envious of another, he may fall into the error of acting with indifference towards him to make him void or to criticize him. People who are envious may also want to compensate for their inner insecurity with a apparent external strengthAs a result, they can show off excessively or focus the entire conversation on themselves.
A person who is envious of you will do everything possible to show that he is happier than you and that everything he owns is better. Insane rivalry is another toxic behavior.
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