One of the most important learnings that we must carry out is to learn to accept what we cannot change, which is, without a doubt, one of the things that we find most difficult to do. When we are little and things do not go the way we want, we get frustrated and, as adults, the same thing often continues to happen to us.
We want to control everything and modify things at our convenience, so that they are always favorable to ourselves, but undoubtedly there are many things that we cannot change.
Accepting that there are things we cannot change means accepting that we are limited and that we cannot do everything, accept that there are people who like us and others do not, accept that some love us and others do not, and even learn to accept the illness or death of a being Dear.
Learning to accept this will free from a lot of pain and a lot of frustration throughout our lives, as well as a lot of guilt knowing that we cannot be responsible for things that are beyond our control.
We must also learn to accept
What we must not forget is that, in the face of any situation, what we can change is the way we deal with it and how we live it.
Change point of view It can help us cope with tough and painful situations that we will have to go through throughout our lives.
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