"Birds of a feather flock together". This phrase is a widely used saying when people who are very similar in their way of being get together, thereby indicating that there is a certain affinity between them. However, when it comes to explaining the reasons why they get together and how they know that they are related, things change and much more when it comes to two people who like each other.
Finding someone we like and who likes us at the same time can be complicated and frustrating and even more so in the time when we meet, because sexual diversity can increase a little more the possibility of discovering if someone is interested in us or not.
Therefore, from Psychology-Online, we propose to provide a series of keys which are intended to help you identify if the person you are interested in also shows some kind of interest in you through 19 signs someone likes you.
It is worth mentioning that they are general advice and that each case may be different.
How many times have we heard that if a woman nervously touches her hair, it means that she is interested in us or that if a man looks us up and down in detail, it is because she is too.
Well, you could say that this is true. Not in all cases, of course, but globally we do find a correlation between act nervous in front of the person we like or of observe in detail to the person we like.
It is possible that it seems that we are generalizing when writing the previous lines, however, it is a trend of all people not being able to avoid getting nervous or wanting to memorize as much as possible of the person for whom we feel true interest.
People experience a series of biological changes when we are in front of the person we like. These are unconscious and involuntary and, no matter how hard we try to hide them, they can become appreciable by the people around us.
Some of these signs are a slight redness of the cheeks, as well as increasing sweating in the hands. Furthermore, although it is only noticeable by the person experiencing it, a increased heart rate. As is scientifically known, this is due to increased levels of norepinephrine, dopamine, and adrenaline. In the following article you will find more information about The chemistry of love.
On the other hand, we find changes in a person's behavior when the person they like is present. We will see how he will try to get as close to her as possible, and if this is not possible, he will try to All means do not lose her from her vision change, even becoming anxious if this occurs.
Some of the people, they act nervous and restless, talking about more when the person you are attracted to is present. They usually clear their throat slightly before speaking to avoid possible stuttering, which is common as a result of fears they feel about saying something inappropriate or out of place.
In addition, it is characteristic that, when the person you like is in the room, all the gestures and actions will be oriented towards this person unconsciously since all attention is focused on her. It is not surprising that she wants the other person to notice her, so many times she will tend to modify her body posture (breastfeeding, tummy tucking, etc) with the aim of showing a slimmer and more self-confident figure.
What does a man say to you when he likes you? How to know if you like a woman? While it is true that we will never find a person who performs each and every one of the following signs, yes we can venture to say that these are a helpful method to be able to know and determine if the other person is interested in U.S:
- Permanent smile. He will not be able to prevent a smile from forming on her face with our mere presence. In addition, it is very common that if your eyes meet quickly a smile appears on her face. He has all his attention focused on you.
- Constant attention. Although this may seem like a simple fact of education, when one person is interested in another, he will not be able to leave to be aware of her, even when she is not doing or saying anything that might require your attention.
- Have a kindness level with you which does not repeat with anyone else. Despite the fact that someone is kind by nature, they cannot help being even more so with the person they are interested in, because It is known that, when someone feels cared for and cared for, he will develop a feeling towards the person who shows him such attention.
- It fixes on your mouth when you're talking His gaze will be directed to your mouth even when you are not speaking. This is a pretty clear sign that they are interested in you. However, you have to be careful when interpreting because there are people, who during a conversation are not able to meet eyes, so they divert their gaze to other points of the face.
- Find common ground with you. He will want to show that you have certain common aspects and in which you agree and are similar. This is to show that you can become very close.
- Try to share time together. Show interest in the other person's hobbies so you have more opportunities to plan together. In addition, they will tend to propose plans with the idea of being able to see you more often.
- Can't help but express nervousness in your presence. As we have mentioned before, they cannot prevent a certain nervousness from being reflected in their way of acting. Above all, when they have to go directly to the person they like.
- Body posture. Her body will tend to be completely oriented towards the person she likes, as well as to lean slightly towards her with the sole objective of eliminating a certain distance between them.
- Now in the technological age the fact respond quickly to your messages It can also indicate an interest in you.
- It may also be that I fill you with complimentsEven if these are subtle, he can't help but tell you.
- Will seek to establish physical contact everytime I can. A subtle touch, a light caress, an innocent hug. All this, which may be harmless to the naked eye, has the sole purpose of making your presence known to the person you like. In addition, it will help you to check the behavior of the other person in front of your contact.
- Every time he knows that he is going to see you, he will spend time taking care of his appearance and looking impeccable to call your attention. For others to see us as confident, we must first feel that way. So, if we look good and cared for, this security will help the person we are interested in see us in a similar way.
- Will use jokes or phrases with double meanings to make you see what he feels, but in an indirect way.
- Will act in a protective manner. A person who cares about you will not be able to hide her protective vein when she realizes that you may be in trouble or that you may require some help.
- Imitates you. This may seem a bit strange, but it has been shown that when a person surreptitiously imitates our gestures make him become someone more attractive to us because they make us feel a certain complicity with they.
- Will want to talk to you whatever the topic. Many times you will initiate conversations which at first glance may seem banal and without importance, but that person will not care what topic to talk about as long as they can talk with you.
- He wants to introduce you to his social and family circle. When someone wants you to be part of his life, he will try to make you do it in its entirety, so it is not surprising that he wants to introduce you to his closest friends and family.
- As it introduces you into his life, wants to become part of yours And therefore you will be interested in everything that surrounds you as well as those around you.
- Cares about how you feel. This is not just a simple polite question about how you are doing. But, really, he wants you to tell him what happens to you and he will try to help you as much as possible.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
