When we find ourselves in a relationship, sometimes, and it depends on the moment, doubts and insecurities can assail us as to whether our partner really loves us. Sometimes these signs are so implicit in the relationship that when it is there it has been a while and you have a very established routine, it is good for someone to remind us of how important a relationship.
Some of these signs can be open communication, active listening or showing interest in establishing common projects. In this Psychology-Online article, we want to give you 13 keys to how to know if your partner really loves you.
Index
- He cares about you
- Open communication
- Active listening
- Confidence
- Future
- Negotiations: attitude to conflicts
- Support point
- I respect
- It opens
- Inclusion
- Joint projects
- Signs of affection
- Liberty
He cares about you.
How do you know if your partner really loves you? In a relationship it is important to see that your partner shows genuine interest for you, and that this is not just a way to fill silences or to look good. It really shows that you care about how your day has gone, your concerns, etc. To know if it is true, it should be noted that in any relationship this interest must be mutual.
Open communication.
Communication is very important in couples. For a couple to prosper, communication must be fluid and open. You must be able talk to your partner about everything, go from expressing your concerns to expressing your feelings and fears. This communication must also have evolved as the relationship progressed. At first it is logical that you keep more things for yourself, but there should be a change in the initial communication to the communication that is established after a while. In addition, this communication must be reciprocal, that is, feel that as one expresses himself more, the other also does it or vice versa.
Active listening.
How to know if your boyfriend really loves you? When you talk to your partner you feel that their 5 senses are focused and that listens to you carefully. Obviously this cannot happen 100% of the time. We all know that on many occasions while we are having a conversation at the same time we are doing, we are awaiting many more things. Even so, when there is an issue that worries you, distresses you or something that makes you happy, you feel that it is there, listens to you and remembers everything that is important to you.
Confidence.
How to know if it's true love? When a person really loves you, they create a bond of trust with you. Do you feel that person count on you for everything and you notice that this person can be him or herself with you. In addition, that favors that you can be it too. You are not afraid of feeling judged by each other because there is trust.
Future.
To find out if your partner really loves you, it can be seen in the way he talks, his actions and the way he talks about the two of you as a couple. For example, you see that the other person has a future planned with you. You see that he takes you into account so that you are that person who walked by his side and to share moments together. In this article, we tell you what does it feel like to be in love for real.
Negotiations: attitude to conflicts.
One of the signs that your partner really loves you is their conflict. It is not about throwing in the towel and not looking for solutions. Despite her anger, she shows a decisive attitude. The intention is to grow from these conflicts and come out stronger. Show a conciliatory attitude and to reach an agreement that facilitates overcoming the problem or difficulty. This may not always happen, but the vast majority show this kind of attitude.
Support point.
Your partner, as well as other people around you, has become a source of unconditional support. He is one of the people you take into account to celebrate your joys and mourn your sorrows. He is a person who is part of your day to day and is there for the good and the bad. Share with you what you feel and is there to support you in any situation. Supporting someone can also be a way to say I love you without saying it.
I respect.
How do you know if your partner really loves you? This point should actually be found in any relationship we have with anyone. It should be inherent and implicit in our way of relating. Still, a partner who really loves you respects you in every way: as a person, with your opinions, although I do not share them and may not agree, respect that it is your opinion, etc. Even if he shares certain ideas with you, he always respects them.
It opens.
This point can be closely related to one of the previous ones: trust. It is true that opening up allows you to build trust with another person, but when someone loves you, you see a evolution in relationship. At the beginning, people tend to be more withdrawn, we evaluate more what we say and what not, what we keep to ourselves and what we count. Even so, we must observe an evolution, see that the person increasingly opens up to us.
If we see that this happens, it is that for that person we are important enough to tell us the information and we have generated the confidence level of trust sufficient for you to open and share your feelings.
Inclusion.
How do you know when someone really loves you? It is important that your partner, to a greater or lesser extent, includes you in their plans. It is important that make you a part of his hobbies, their meet-ups, etc. Obviously, we must give space, but we must also feel included in the plans. It is about finding a balance between two worlds coming together.
Joint projects.
As the relationship with someone progresses, be it a beginning or already taking time and being stabilized, a couple must have common goals. Joint projects can be from doing activities together, moving to live together, undertaking something together, traveling, having children, etc. In short, it has want to do things with you.
Signs of affection.
When someone really loves you affection is inherent. The desire to kiss, hug or caress comes out on its own. If someone really loves you, it will be difficult for them to be by your side and not feel this affection, either just with a look or a gesture of complicity. In this article, we give you ideas of how to surprise your partner in any situation.
Liberty.
To know if your partner really loves you, it is important to find yourself in a relationship where the person feels they can grow. For a relationship to move forward, it is crucial that the person next to you let you be who you are and whoever you want to be On the other hand, the person who loves us must give us wings to fly and feel free to be as we want.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
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Bibliography
- Riso, W. (2003). Love or depend?: how to overcome affective attachment and make love a full and healthy experience. Publisher: Norma.
