The process of falling out of love is not sudden but a gradual process in which an accumulation of internal sensations is produced that finally, derive in the death of the feeling of love. The falling out of love shows a clear contrast with the initial illusion of the story when the image that lovers have of the other is idyllic and perfect.
On the contrary, when you experience the bitter taste of disappointment by falling out of love, the virtues are reduced and the defects increase. The other person remains exactly the same: What has changed then? The inner world of the lover and his way of observing the other.
It should be pointed out that, in essence, falling out of love is a mystery as remarkable as love itself, since just as nobody chooses who they fall in love with, in the same way, nobody decides to fall out of love of her partner. However, sometimes this is the case. A person may even have fallen out of love with someone whom she values and admires.
In other cases, the opposite situation occurs: the person does not understand how she could fall in love at the time of her. They are the paradoxes of the heart and feelings.
In those cases of falling out of love that are accompanied by frustration and resentment, the person feels angry and sad for the time that she has lost in a story whose ending has not been happy. The process of falling out of love shows that this is one of the cards in the love game since uncertainty is an inherent factor in relationships, even more so at the beginning of a story.
In those cases of unrequited love, the falling out of love begins at the moment in which the lover feels that the blindfold has fallen off in a definitive way when realizing how things are in reality.
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