There are people who would love to find love, and yet they are people who do not find a partner. Behind this type of emotional contradiction, sometimes it is convenient to go further because it may be the person himself who is boycotting himself in his desire for happiness. This is the case, for example, when someone has such high expectations and a prototype of the ideal person that it is impossible to find in reality. This is also how those who compare any possible new love with a relationship from the past behave.
Find a partner.
To find a partner, sometimes, you have to look for it. Be careful because find a partner it's not like going after another target. This goal does not depend solely on your will, therefore, relax, live and do not close just in this direction. Do your best for meet new people, focus your attention on the means and not on the result. That is the key to feeling good about yourself for having tried but without feeling frustrated for not having achieved the success that you would have liked to have.
Remember that today it is possible to search for a partner over the Internet, and that this technique has given very good results to many couples who met online. Therefore, do not close doors and try to be receptive to love, no matter how it comes into your life.
Being without a partner.
Being without a partner it is usually a punctual state of life, therefore, if it is something that makes you suffer, then try to analyze the situation objectively: this period can have a beginning and an end. At some point you can meet someone special.
On the other hand, sometimes, from loneliness love is very idealized in itself. This idealization leads you to long for the lives of other people when in reality, a relationship is not always the solution to absolute happiness. Happiness is in you and in the company that you give yourself.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
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