Starting to talk to someone you like on WhatsApp can arouse illusions and fears. Sometimes we don't know what the person behind the screen really thinks. New technologies have changed the way of communication, but also those of flirting. On WhatsApp we cannot interpret gestures, looks, and that sometimes makes the person wonder what they can do to know if the other person is really interested. In Psychology-Online we explain how to know if a person likes you on WhatsApp with 20 key signals.
How to know if a girl or a boy likes you on WhatsApp? There are several details that can help us to know if a person is interested in us. Next we will see the gestures that show that a man or a woman likes you.
If the person has a real interest in you, he will want to talk to you, a clear sign that she is interested in you is the beginning of the conversations. It does not mean that it always has to be the other who initiates them, but it is important that you take turns, that the interest is reciprocal.
Another sign that can make us think that another person likes us is that when they cannot be aware of WhatsApp, they will let us know. This fact tells us that the person takes us into consideration, knows that he will not be able to keep an eye on you and lets you know so that you do not worry if you see that he does not answer.
At this point, it is important to clarify that not everyone uses the networks in the same way. Before we start talking to someone, we need to ask how often they use certain networks, such as WhtasApp. If the person uses it little, we must assess how often he writes to us and if that frequency is what the other person considers normal. On the other hand, if the person frequents the networks a lot, it is to be expected that we will maintain fluid communication almost every day.
Look for conversation topics
The person not only tries to maintain fluid communication with you, but also initiates possible conversation topics that serve to get to know you better or learn and discuss together.
When the person finishes his day and goes to sleep, after having been speaking he communicates it to you and does not leave you “with the word in your mouth”.
You feel comfortable talking to the person
It is important, when we start talking to someone, pay attention to how we feel, what emotions it arouses in us.
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How do you know if you like me? We must also be an active part in the whole process of meeting someone on WhatsApp, for this, it is also It is important that we ask questions that allow us to know a little more about the other person and give us information about what their intentions. Some of the questions we can ask are:
What do you notice about a person?
With that question, what you want to achieve is to know what qualities of one person are important to the other. This way, it will be easier to know if he likes you or not. Plus, it not only lets you know if you're their type, but it also lets you know a little more about the other person.
What do you think of me?
Although it is a very direct question, it can be very informative. It should be mentioned that doing it just when you start talking can be a bit violent, but doing it after a while can give us a lot of information. In these types of questions we hope to find sincerity and evolution: At first, what most caught my attention about you was... but now that I've gotten to know you a little more, I really like that...
If the person does not want to answer that question, it can also be a significant fact to keep in mind, it may be that they still do not have much confidence to talk about what topics with you.
What are your virtues? And your flaws?
This question allows us to know more about what the other person thinks of himself, and at the same time to know what qualities he considers to be her strong points and which are her weak points. Giving you this information shows that the person has an interest in you meeting them as well as the confidence to tell you.
What do you like in me the most?
Be careful with that question! A person who really likes you is going to tell you things about your way of being, apart from the physical ones. Those who are not so interested are left with the superficial.
Ask about their hobbies
That will allow you not only to know the person better but also to see which ones you have in common. If you find one, do not hesitate to propose to practice it together or together one day.
What does a man or woman say to you when they like you? How does this person behave? Other signs of interest in WhatsApp are the following:
The evolution of emoticons
When you start talking to someone, the emoticons that are commonly used are more basic and neutral, such as: the smiley face, the monkeys, etc. As the conversations progress, the emoticons are transformed into more elaborate emoticons, such as: the face with two hearts, the kiss face, the flushed face, etc.
Proposes to stay
A clear sign that that person is interested in you is wanting to cross the screen and propose to see them one day. Or also that if you propose it, accept without even thinking twice. Here you can see how calm your nerves before a first date.
Explains personal issues
As you talk more, the other person tells you more about her life. He explains you from anecdotes with his friends to family issues and even events that have marked him.
Show interest in you
The conversation not only revolves around the other person but also seeks to know more about you, is interested in what you like. He asks you about events and hobbies. In short, show interest in knowing and knowing more about yourself.
Asks how are you
If you talk to me every day, do you like me? Well yes, there is more probability that it is. In addition, if you regularly worry about how you are and your possible day-to-day concerns, there are even more possibilities.
Remember important events for you
As the conversations become more constant and more fluid, it may be that you have explained to him that you have an important presentation on that day. If the person is interested in you, that day they will ask you about your presentation.
Gives you feedback
It is true that there are many signs that can indicate that the person feels comfortable talking to you. Even so, sometimes it is good to receive feedback on how the person is seeing their evolution with you. Therefore, another way to know if a girl or a boy likes you on WhatsApp is by paying attention to what they think of you and your interaction by message.
Count on you
The person, as he gains confidence with the conversations he has with you, will feel more comfortable explaining to you certain topics like I'm having a horrible day today! may seek comfort from you as well as share their joys with you.
Like everything in life, in the conversation with a person there must be an evolution. This evolution must also be consistent with the first steps that are being taken, if you have already met, if you have kissed. Each time the level of intimacy in the conversation must also be higher.
Highlight your qualities
At some point in the conversation, the person mentions something that they like or are attracted to about you. At that point there should also be an evolution as the conversation progresses. It is normal that at the beginning, when knowing you little, what stands out the most about you are those physical features that have been able to draw the attention of your WhatsApp photo; eyes, smile, etc. It is important that as the days go by talking, the person goes a little further and highlights some trait of your personality that has made him notice you.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.