There are people who are placed in the role of waiting in love, that is, they are waiting for the other person change your mind. Life is also time and all those days that we are at the mercy of the will of others, could be counted as wasted time that we have wasted by remaining hooked on a goal. The reality is very broad, and life is too, therefore, if someone does not feel the same as you, assume it as soon as possible, turn the page and move on. Over time, you may laugh at how you could be so blind for that person who seems wonderful to you today or that in the future you will know a much deeper love.
Let wait out of respect for yourself, that is, out of love for you. Value yourself as you deserve because in addition, the other person has not asked you to wait for him. Therefore, think that life is a path in which you have to move forward and face events as they come.
Trade the feeling of failure for the satisfaction of having tried. When you are aware that you have done everything you can to make things go well with the other person, then disappointment also hurts less. You cannot demand more of yourself.
While you wait for that love, you are missing wonderful things. It is not about never waiting for someone, but about not waiting forever. The moment you feel that you have become stagnant or that the feeling has become unhealthy because it makes you suffer, then you have to shelve that issue.
A great love awaits you: the one you should give yourself. When you are eternally waiting for another person, you undervalue yourself so much that you lose your true value. You deserve much more than being a supporting actor in your own life: starting today, take the leading role in the plot of your life. If someone loves you, they will come looking for you.
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