Time is a factor that conditions all aspects of life, also love. Much has been said about the call seven-year crisis. In reality, love is not a mathematical equation, that is, not all couples have to live the critical moment at the same point on the road. But what the seven-year crisis essentially represents is that only couples who are aware that this crisis is going to occur at some point will be able to save their love.
A crisis is not a negative thing since in a phase of doubts is when the person can ask himself many questions and work much more on his relationship. When things flow naturally as in falling in love, lovers feel like they don't have to go to great lengths to make the relationship work. However, in the seven year crisis the perspective that each has of the other and of her own life has changed.
The nerves and butterflies in the stomach were left behind, giving rise to a relationship that in many cases seems more friendly than a couple. Namely, the feeling is more serene and there is less passion and more routine. There is no way to change this reality. It is literally impossible to always be in the infatuation phase because it would be even physically exhausting.
First of all, in a time of crisis it is vital that you do not analyze the situation solely from the perspective of now. Values the whole of the relationship and keep your mind set on the future being aware that the crisis is going to end.
Take the seven-year crisis in your relationship as a real opportunity to get to know yourself better and to get to know your partner. Think positive and water the love plant with affection.
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