It turns out that you meet a man and you start dating and everything seems to be going well. You have met several times and you begin to wonder if he is feeling something more for you or where the relationship is going. You think he likes you, but he doesn't express anything to you about what he feels towards you.
In these cases, how do you know that he has feelings towards you? Answering this question can give you a lot of headaches, even days without sleep, and still not get a clear answer. If you are interested in knowing the signs for know if a man hides his feelings and understand the reasons why he hides what he feels from you, don't miss this Psychology-Online article in which we explain everything to you.
The most common context in which a man does not want to show his feelings is in the socio-affective sphere, that is, he has difficulties in showing what he feels and what he thinks about the person he is meeting, be they positive thoughts or negatives.
A specific situation for which a man does not want to show his feelings would be to think that it makes him vulnerable,
Another situation in which a man may not want to show his feelings is when they think that the other person does not correspond to them. So, in order not to feed his insecurities and preserve his self-esteem, they decide to hide it. In this way, they also avoid possible criticism or feeling judged.
Still, it may be that a man don't know how to show your feelings and from the outside it is perceived that he does not want to do it. Currently, emotional education is promoted and great importance is being given to expressing opinions, thoughts, ideas and feelings assertively, something that used to happen more unnoticed. In this article we analyze why it is so difficult to express feelings and how to do it.
If you want to know if a man hides his feelings, we invite you to know what signs and behaviors reveal that a man has feelings for you. Next, we will see the most important:
- He introduces you to his friends and includes you in his circle: that means that he is including you in his life and in his environment of trust, something that he surely does not do with everyone.
- Make plans with you for the future: for the next month, the next vacation or even the next year.
- Find a way to see you again: any excuse is good for you to see each other for a while.
- He doesn't care if they see him with you on the street: moreover, he is proud that others see him with you.
- He cares about your well-being and how your day has gone: shows interest in things that are important to you and lets you know.
How to know if a man likes you by non-verbal language
Looking at his non-verbal language can give you many clues as to whether or not he has feelings for you. In order to draw a clear conclusion, you must observe their base gestures, that is, those that are usually performed without there being a stimulus that activates them. From there, some of the gestures that can indicate that a man has feelings for you are:
- His pupils dilate when he is with you: This is a sign that he likes you. In this case, it is important that it does not occur in a dark place, since they are areas in which the pupils are naturally dilated in order to capture more light.
- The tips of the feet point towards you.
- He adopts postures in which he is bodily open, that is, it does not put physical barriers between you.
- maintains eye contact with you: You don't want to miss a single detail of what you're doing or saying.
- Uses a soft tone and timbre of voice.
- look for physical contact with you.
- Smile when he looks at you
If you can identify it more easily, do not miss this article that shows signs someone likes you.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
