Do you fall in love with the wrong person or do you just fall in love and get carried away? I don't think we ever fall in love with the wrong people, we just accidentally focus on one type of profile. Being in love is understood as "being in the clouds", right? Euphoria and happiness go hand in hand and they give you an injection of positive emotions that completely change you. But, What is it that makes you look at one person's profile and not another?
What kind of similarity? It is often when we are inadvertently attracted to people who make us feel good because they "unintentionally" remind us of our parents. Why? Because unconsciously they give us security and confidence without being our relatives.
Sharing similar experiences, having similar tastes and values is a good way to choose a partner with whom to share life since all these aspects make understanding easier.
Can you admire someone to the point of loving them? Yes. Why? Because in that person you see virtues or aspirations that you want in yourself
Here we would welcome the famous pheromones, the substances of love. You will perceive them without realizing that they come to you but you will feel them within you in sensations.
Don't think that you fall in love with the wrong person, it's just that you fall in love with some people and not others. Be that as it may, enjoy that state of happiness, because when the intensity decreases you will see the reality in front of you, being able to better assess whether that person suits you or not.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
