Love chooses you

There are people who think that love is a personal choice when in reality, the transcendental side of the feeling is shown in that it arises in an unexpected way, when you did not have it planned and with a person who never you imagined. If love really were a choice that a person makes in a conscious way on an individual level, then all stories would have a happy ending. However, love breaks your schemes, puts you in situations that you did not imagine, breaks the script that you had imagined of your life and gives you emotion. Therefore, in a way, we can say that love chooses you and not the other way around.

Love chooses you with the negative side that this situation can sometimes have. The pain a person feels when feel something without being reciprocateda is immense. Who secretly live a platonic love or they feed their false hopes for fear of accepting reality. Love chooses you at first and traps you, however, in a second phase it is you who has to choose or reject that love on a rational level.

Intelligence acts as a light on feeling. If you are in a relationship without a future, then look out for yourself and don't just close yourself to that option. You deserve a better chance. But instead, if you feel that someone has appeared in your life that makes you feel better, then do everything you can to really take care of that person on an emotional level.

Love has its transcendental part in life. In fact love makes you connect with the most authentic side of yourself. It fills you up inside to the point that once you've discovered something that makes you happy, there are other things in your life that, compared to the effect that that person has on you, make you feel empty.

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