Loneliness, sometimes, is lived in a very bitter way. In fact, many people in old age seek a partner simply because they feel alone. The truth is that love is not a substitute in the form of companionship but something much deeper. That is, to avoid loneliness you can make plans with friends, have professional projects, spaces for leisure, participate in volunteer activities, practice spirituality ...
Much has been said and written about drawbacks of loneliness when living in a bitter way: sadness, apathy, despair... However, loneliness also has positive factors. Which are? On the one hand, it gives you total freedom when it comes to doing what you really want without having to ask anyone else for explanations or having to adapt to someone else's concerns. On the other hand, you have more time for yourself and you can use it as it suits you best.
In this way, you can develop many concerns Y potentialities in the daily routine. On the other hand, it is worth it that you encourage yourself to live positively, that you are able to give the best of yourself and that not because of being alone you end up closing yourself in yourself. That is, there are many people who will be delighted to meet you and know who you are. Therefore, do not close doors to the hope of living with hope and happiness.
The fact of being alone should not be an excuse not to do someplans. I mean, you can do whatever you really want from traveling to going to the movies. In addition, happiness does not depend on having someone by your side but it depends on yourself, your initiative, positive thinking and your level of well-being.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
